Annoying Neighbours

I have neighbours who are very annoying. Almost every day my family made annoyed by them. In fact, my family never made them mad. My family always tries to do good to please them, but they only made us upset. What's wrong with my family? What should we do? Could we be patient and silent? Why do they never realize what they are doing? Maybe we did not have much to say because speech is silver, silence is gold. So, let them realize it by themselves, because they are old and adults who have minds. Hopefully all of this a silver lining, as the wise man saying   "Every disaster brings wisdom. " I hope they could realize what they've done it.

Vocabularies :

Mad : Offensive mentally ill.
Upset : Worried, unhappy, or angry.
Wise : Someone who is always trying to seem more clever than anyone.
Annoy : To make someone angry.
Wisdom : The ability to use your knowledge and experience to make good decisions and judgment.